Ask The Batemaster: Porn & Mindful Masturbation
You sometimes say that using a lot of porn for batefuel isn’t necessarily bad, but it doesn’t mix too well with Mindful Masturbation.
You sometimes say that using a lot of porn for batefuel isn’t necessarily bad, but it doesn’t mix too well with Mindful Masturbation.
I don't know why most guys beat off to porn, huff poppers, and race to the finish line. Why don't all guys do Mindful Masturbation?
Many men in today’s world (sometimes myself included) enjoy masturbating to porn on the Internet, which can prove highly arousing and provide great bate fuel. In my opinion, porn is sacred, as it shares an extremely important part of our lives that most mainstream cultures still frown upon and often seek to keep hidden.
The Erogenous Body
To pursue excellence as a male masturbator, you not only want to arouse your entire body but also to invite every part of your genital and pelvic region to participate in generating those ecstatic waves that flood your entire being with bliss. Plus, there’s nothing wrong with a lot of focus on the penis, as that’s where so much sensation comes from. Still, your entire body can be viewed as an erogenous zone.
Your masturbation practice, no matter how great, can intensify simply by getting creative: try new masturbation techniques, deliberately shift your focus, seek out the undiscovered country of the Masturbatory Frontier! We all get into habits, and habits are not entirely bad, still in the realm of excellence among male masturbators, it’s always good to periodically break the mold.
You can stroke yourself high-and-higher indefinitely, which can go far beyond what guys sometimes call edging, allowing the intense penis pleasure to radiate through your entire body and light up every one of your trillions of cells. When you’ve got a great bate going, get your body moving: walk around and keep masturbating, even do knee-bends and keep masturbating. Remind yourself to take a DEEP belly breath while you masturbate! It’s such a sweet, sweet ride, both endless and limitless!
Male masturbation is always a good thing, and it is the most common sexual experience on the planet. The only possible dark side comes if a masturbator reinforces guilt or shame in the process; the best way to get rid of those factors is to burn them out with extreme, high-quality sessions of physical self-love. The surrender to pure penile pleasure can help to make you a better man.
Masturbating is actually something like one of those humungous multi-stage rockets that they send up from Cape Canaveral, where you see this gigantic upright thing standing ready and waiting for ignition, then lift-off into Bater Bliss orbit. Yes, there are plenty of specifics that you can actually try that may help your lift-off into the Goon Zone where gravity can’t get you any longer, and you’re in erotic free-fall!
I still feel masturbation shame after I ejaculate, even after reading everything you've said before about shame on The Bator Blog. How do I overcome this?
More recently, it has been discovered neuroplasticity of the brain can weave new nerve pathways, repairing damage from injury and enhancing brain function.
I have done some investigating, journeying, and soul searching while including psychoactive substances in my bate. It's been interesting and fun as hell!
Now that I’m over 80 years old, though I still think about sex a lot, my erections don’t get very hard and they don’t last more than a few minutes.