When I look back on my sexual journey and masturbation highlights, I recognize that my self-pleasure practice really didn’t become well-rounded, or should I say, “Supercharged!” until I found BateWorld in 2013.
Sure, I did a lot of jerking off before then, but BateWorld provided me an online safe space to really sink deeply into the pleasure that is cock.
It helped my sexual confidence
It was on BateWorld where I had the courage to show photos of my body and penis online. First, I exposed a little skin here and there, then my dick with no face, and eventually I created whole elaborate exhibitionistic scenes with my cock erupting cum, my body convulsing, and my face and voice expressing uncensored sexual joy.
Not only was I more and more daring, I realized that stretching my self-pleasuring “legs” (all three of them – wink!) was building my sexual confidence. I was becoming a strong and proud Sexual Being, which resulted in positively affecting all the aspects of my life—less shame, more assertiveness, more pleasure. Despite the many years of religious abuse, my shattered and compartmentalized Being was becoming more whole and complete, including my powerful cock pleasure—all because of the safe space on BateWorld.
Sharing sexual energy
It was on BateWorld where I first entered a camming environment. I could see and interact with all shapes and sizes of cocks as well as their many different styles of men jerking off—dozens and dozens of them in realtime. Like never before, I felt less and less isolated about my cock love, because of the sheer number of masturbating men from all around the world, bating to our cocks’ content—all at the same time!
I was a part of shooting and stringing a spiderweb of sexy energy to and from each other that wrapped the whole world in sticky, cum-laced powerful connection! Yes please!
Giving back to the community
It was on BateWorld where I began to give back to the bator community by telling stories, contributing to Bator Blog, and bonding with brothers who all have our glorious cocks in common.
BateWorld even supported me in creating an in-person weekend retreat, where the intimacy I was experiencing in BateWorld’s online community could CUM together in the same location and outdoors in nature, naked under the sun, touching and tasting and stroking our phalluses as a band of sexual adventurers!
A respite and a safe space
BateWorld continues to grow and grow, like an expanding engorged penis. New blood and input is making BateWorld broader, and more diverse. I couldn’t be prouder of my cock home. As I think of the next 15 years and beyond, it appears we may have another political wave of sex negativity on the horizon, but it’s too late. I will not go back in the closet of sexual fear and stigmatization.
Yes, we need to protect ourselves and even more important, we must keep BateWorld a safe space for anyone who wants to celebrate the innocent stroking pleasure of the healing holy phallus! It’s not just a wank here and there. It’s a way of life, and I will never be ashamed of how Bate World has filled my life with deep, abiding, embodied pleasure. Hail cock!
Activist, Artist and Sexologist, Jallen Rix (Hand2rod on BateWorld) holds a Doctorate of Education in Sexology and has a private practice in Palm Springs Ca. His life and career are an expression of the freedom and joy he has experienced in integrating his sexuality with the rest of his life after leaving the abusive religious environment of his youth.
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So glad to hear how BW has improved your masturbation enjoyment and confidence. BW helped me in my gaining an appreciation and attraction to the male phallus. When I first stumbled upon BW I was happy to see a site dedicated to my love of masturbation. It was a support group of those, like me, that love masturbating. As I saw the variety and the sheer number of other cocks here I started to realize what a beautiful thing a cock was. Such sculpted beauty in all sizes, colors, and styles. I now find nothing more beautiful to behold than a man’s cock, especially a hard cock who’s sheer beauty and implications are so arousing. Bate on, brothers.