QUESTION:
I see this guy who comes hands-free. Amazing! He waves his dick around and grimaces, no touching it, then he spurts huge loads, and he shouts! How does he do it? How can I do it too?
RESPONSE:
The kind of hands-free ejaculation you describe, I’ve seen both online and a few times in person. Not sure I’ve seen the exact same guy you describe, though it’s the principle behind it that is important. This is a significant illustration of something truly valuable for any male masturbator to understand. Not necessarily that you need to accomplish such a feat or demonstration, but to grasp what it illustrates.
Erotic arousal happens primarily in your mind and the brain associated with your mind. It is possible for the mental and emotional stimulation to achieve a certain kind of momentum, so that your corresponding physical effects from that excitement continue, and then overflow. Literally as jets of semen.
“Erotic arousal happens primarily in your mind and the brain associated with your mind. It is possible for the mental and emotional stimulation to achieve a certain kind of momentum“
This can produce visually impressive videos, in contrast to the standard stroking, and then accelerating strokes that lead up to the “money shot.” Of course, in most cases you cannot be sure what was going on before the recording started, or the editor decided to begin the clip. Also, the guy doing the hands-free ejaculation may even still be looking at some porn for help. Or he may simply fantasize in a way that keeps his arousal fueled.
Your motive for seeking to come “hands-free” yourself is part of the picture. Regardless of how it is done, the mental momentum of erotic images and/or feelings is likely to play an important role in the outcome. Also, it is quite a meaningful demonstration of that conventional wisdom that your brain is your most important sex organ.
In truth, I don’t agree with this convention 100%. The remainder of your body, your skin, and such erogenous zones as your lips and nipples and in particular, your penis, are all extremely valuable and important contributors. Yes, you can experience erotic pleasure entirely in your mind. But then it will be a purely cerebral experience, a fantasy not grounded in somatic, or bodily functions. For human males, this kind of mental excitation is likely to also result in corresponding genital arousal.
Play with what I’ve discussed here and try various tactics as I’ve suggested. You might begin with an intense session of manual self-stimulation, then shift towards visual, and perhaps mental and emotional focus.
See how far you can push the gap between any actual physical touch upon your erection, and the final sprint to shoot your wad. Thrust your hips and wave your erection around with hip motions. Squeeze and release and alternate various internal muscle systems around the roots of your genitals and scrotum, your anus and pelvis, to continue building towards that hands-free climax.
Most important: Have fun!
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at BateWorld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
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