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Multiple ejaculation is simply a matter of abundant erotic energy generated within you…

QUESTION:

Maybe it’s because I’m still in my 20s. I can get so excited during my sessions that I experience multiple ejaculation, even three times in a session. Hardly a pause (pun intended!) Can I keep this up (intended again) as I get older?

RESPONSE:

When guys are young, by which I mean teens, twenties, thirties, and even forties, it’s not so uncommon during masturbation to ejaculate and then continue without much interruption to a second, or even a third ejaculation. Serial ejaculation is not something any man should force himself to try to achieve, not unless it feels somewhat natural and possible. There is no competition or heroic accomplishment involved. It’s simply a matter of abundant erotic energy generated within you, taking you past the ordinary kind of conclusion of your session.

This is most likely to occur when you are intensely excited, You have probably felt highly aroused for quite a while. The mental and emotional excitement may continue at such a peak level that it simply carries your body’s responses past the common down-side after ejaculation, up over another peak of arousal to further ejaculation(s).

I’ve witnessed men in their forties have three consecutive ejaculations. The second and third happened without much diminishment of erection, as the man continued to stimulate his erection for a while after the previous ejaculation. The second and third ejaculations generally do involve less semen spurting out, and with the third it is likely to be far less. However, clearly the mental and emotional intensity of the orgasms was profound.

Again, this kind of experience is not something men necessarily need to try to accomplish. If a man tries and cannot manage it, at the very least he needs to give himself an A+++ for effort, and not feel like a failure. This is not something that most men easily manage. Far more common is the classic diminishment of arousal, getting soft and the “refractory period,” of a pause and recovery before a man is likely to grow aroused and seek orgasm again. This period can be a matter of minutes, hours, or even a day or two. There is no formula or “normal” time. It simply varies.

One alternative that men engage in is edging or retaining semen for longer periods between ejaculations Such a practice may result in a more intense ejaculatory orgasm when you go ahead and enjoy it, and more a voluminous release of semen.

As for how long you will be able to experience this in your specific case, that simply remains to be seen. In your case as well, while this is not so difficult to accomplish, you might as well fully enjoy it. But if the day comes when you cannot manage this easily or at all, don’t feel like a failure. Instead, appreciate the journey you’ve been on and relish the journey of pure penis pleasure you can continue to enjoy.

A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at BateWorld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.

Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.

 

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Among his earliest memories, Bruce recalls seeing an adult man’s penis swing about anchored in a nest of curly brown hairs when the man was changing clothes. That penis fascinated him and he somehow knew it was of major importance. He also remembers how good it felt to slide down a stairway banister or to climb a tree with pressure between his legs sending delicious sensations all through his body.

At an early age, he played doctor with another boy his age, and the frottage he enjoyed as they rubbed their penises together made him feel One with All Things.

He was older, maybe 9 or 10 years when he figured out how to actually masturbate while taking a shower. Immediately Bruce became a fan of self-pleasure, though, with puberty, he became extremely shy about his body being seen. Still, when his pubic hair sprouted and his penis grew bigger, it astonished him how incredible the sensations could feel with adult genitalia.

All through his 20s and 30s Bruce loved masturbating and did it often. Something kept tell him though, that there could be more to it. None of the books he read about Tantra and Taoist erotic cultivation provided simple how-to instructions. Finally, in his early 40s, he came upon Joseph Kramer’s video about male genital massage: FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN.

Having no playmates to try this with, he tried it on himself. In the process, he discovered what he soon named “Mindful Masturbation.” For 6 weeks he masturbated for hours every day, and did not ejaculate once! This was the Penis Paradise he had been looking for since his adventures playing doctor as a young boy. He was changed forever and lost most of his shyness and insecurities.

Bruce began to listen deeply to whatever his penis told him. This way he learned more and more about male masturbation, the penis, and he studied human sexuality. Soon he was hired to write professionally for the sex education site JackinWorld (dot) com, which he did for some years under the name “Bruce McFarland.”

Since then, his erotic activism is more radical and he uses his actual given name: Bruce P. Grether, AKA the Batemaster. He has hosted workshops and now does online masturbation coaching. In 2012 his best-selling book THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS was published and with his handsome young friend Blue Tyger he created the Erotic Engineering site to explore advanced male self-pleasure practices.

Bruce considers himself a Missionary of the Male Mysteries and his work continues.

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  1. It could actually be hypoprolactinemia. I think there are tests for this. If that’s the case, it may not end with youth. In any case, I say enjoy the sex you have, regardless of orgasm. Being fully present to your body and the pleasure it provides in the moment is far more important than ejaculation and orgasm.

  2. RE: Multiple Ejaculations,

    Bruce is correct in informing us about how “recovery” time varies for individuals and also within each individual. At my ripe age of 67 I can sometimes obtain multiple ejaculations in a single bate session but only after a few minutes of recharging. This seldom happens but I do relish the experience now and then. When I was younger of course I enjoyed many multiple ejaculations during one bate session. This pretty much ended when I was an older teen.

    There are two memorable occasions of multiple ejaculations I can relate to you. Both of these occurred when I was a young adult. Around age 22 I was in the Navy and stationed in San Diego. I met a young woman in Chula Vista in a club I think was called “The Roundup.” We made a date for the following week. We met, wined and dined, walked along the beach and went to her place. We engaged in small talk and eventually began kissing, fondling and petting. We went to her room, disrobed, explored each other’s body and then she climbed on top of me. By then I was super charged. I cummed within seconds of penetration but my cock remained hard and she rode me for another 10 minutes before I let loose another load. That did me in for the night but I have never forgotten that uninterrupted multiple ejaculation night.

    The second experience involved a woman who is now my wife. I met her in San Diego shortly after the episode described above. She was giving me a great blowjob as she always did. This one night she was especially expert at sucking my cock that I cummed not once, not twice but three times in a short span of time. Her mouth never left my cock. I have often thought of that night throughout the years.

    I have never enjoyed such experiences since except for the occasional time when I masturbate. Those memories are wonderful but have a tinge of sadness to them. One is that I am no longer young so recovery is usually hours if not a day or two and two, my wife hasn’t sucked my cock in 25 years. Bottom line: enjoy
    each session for what it is. Many times I don’t even ejaculate, I am quite happy to just edge.

    1. Hello selfrewarder. Just read your comment.. back in high school during a school vacation, I must have been 15 at the time, I jerked off 5 times in one day. The 1st and second cut loads were a lot, but that was it. Each time , 3rd,4th and 5th time only that funny feeling.
      My cock was sore afterwards, lol
      Not much cum on last 3 .

  3. I think there are varying degrees to this as well. I as I’ve gotten older, I’ve been able to separate ejaculation from orgasm while edging. It’s slightly more difficult to “cum on command” like I used to, but it’s a fair trade as I can ejaculate multiple times before having a full on orgasm.

    I remember three distinct times in my life when I had two back to back orgasms. The first was in my teens when I came and was able to immediately do it again. Another time was just a couple years ago during sex with my husband where I came inside him, pulled out and had to cum again! We were both surprised! The third was just last year and was incredible while we were having fun with another couple where I had a full on orgasm while jerking that was dry and was able to then orgasm again with a large ejaculation. I usually can leak semen after edging for at least an hour and I realize now how much more common this is for some edgers. I remember as a teen seeing a solo jo scene where the guy was able to shoot some cum and keep going, thinking how incredibly hot and rare that is and which enough practice I can achieve this now as well!

    It’s fun showing this off in person or on cam.

  4. I too, remember the ability to keep on going in my teens and 20s in particular when my desire was so strong! While, I was still able to do this in my early 30s, I kind of supercharged and extended this practice when I bought a Venus 2000 when I was 33. That machine, among other things, allowed me literally to milk myself into oblivion, which I did on a regular basis. While fun, by age 40, I was literally draining the life out of me and felt exhausted more and more. Searching for answers, I found Bruce and his DVDs which soon led me to the promised land of multiple dry orgasms, which I practice daily for long periods of time ever since.