Ask The Batemaster: Camping Trip Bate Buddy

There’s really nothing stopping you from pitching your tent in some private corner of your city world and inviting your buddy to share it with you.

QUESTION: My good friend and I went camping. With no one else around, we bated together in the tent, by the campfire, and  in the woods by a lake! I was in Heaven, and I know he liked it a lot too. But now, back in the city where we live, he says that’s not likely to happen again unless we go camping again. How can I persuade him to do it here?

RESPONSE: Well, you two had a wonderful time together, and truth is your buddy may be a bit shyer or more conflicted about what happened than you are. Hopefully what he said to you is not his way of saying “No, not again.” The best way to find out and move forward is to just say, “So, when can we go camping again?” Either that, or to lighten up a bit you could suggest that maybe you would be willing to set up your tent somewhere near where you live in the city, even in your own backyard, if you have one, or in his yard, if he has one.

I definitely wish you the best in your situation, and hope you have further chances to enjoy sharing masturbation with your friend. Still, it may not be wise to fixate on what may prove a “limited access” experience, at least that’s what the evidence so far suggests. One hopeful thing about this is that regardless of how guys publicly identify their sexuality, clearly the vast majority of men are open to masturbating with other men, at least under certain specific circumstances. It has become better known that many self-identified “straight guys” can seriously get off on masturbating with another guy, or guys.

Your friend may also want you to keep it under wraps, even if it does happen again before too long, perhaps closer to home than on another camping trip. Without making a big issue of it, casually say something to the effect of, “That fun we had together camping is just between you and me, you know?” “Discretion is the better part of valor,” to quote Shakespeare out of contact, and the truth is that most likely the Bard, being an artistic type, loved to masturbate, possibly with his handsome blond young patron, Henry Wriothesley, the Earl of Southampton. This is a possibility for which history (at least as we know it so far) does not record confirmation, but what we know of actual human nature certainly renders it within the realm of the possible. Plus, Shakespeare’s sonnets, dedicated to Wriothesley, seem to have a strong homoerotic character, along with a possibly bisexual scenario.

Most important in your situation, Brother, is to not push your friend too hard and annoy him but make it clear to him how much you enjoyed your male playtime while camping. Simply tell him you’d enjoy more of the same kind of play anytime, if he feels like it. To put the ball on his side of the court might prove most strategic. The worst he can say is “No,” so long as her really is a good friend.

I suggest you’d also be wise to open yourself to possibilities and look for other masturbation buddies in your area. Maybe try a city “Jacks” group or network online (www.bateworld.com) . For all kinds of men to masturbate together truly is a coming thing. More and more guys truly “get it” and want to share masturbation with Phallic Brothers.

There’s really nothing stopping you from pitching your tent in some private corner of your city world and inviting your buddy to share it with you.

What have you got to lose? Could be a lot of pure penis pleasure to gain!

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