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Ask The Batemaster: Uncut VS. Cut – Are all penises equal?

A Cut Too Far?

Ask The BatemasterQUESTION: Masturbating on vid chat, twice now there’s been a guy with a foreskin who told me I was missing something important, that I’m mutilated because I’m cut. What do you think? Is it a lot better to be uncut?

RESPONSE: All penises are wonderful, circumcised or not! Many men in the USA are still circumcised as infants, a custom that began with World War 2. Of course, Jewish and Islamic men usually are circumcised, mainly for religious reasons. As far as we know the ancient Egyptians invented circumcision. They had mythic and religious beliefs around it, but also in their hot climate, they apparently thought it was easier to keep an exposed penis head clean.

It’s true that circumcised men (like me) will never know the fantastic sensations of a foreskin rubbing over the penis head, as the foreskin has pleasure receptor nerves on both the inside and outside of the skin. In a more ideal world, the choice to be circumcised should be left to men to decide after they mature sexually in their teens, and they can study the matter. Some boys are circumcised in later boyhood if they have the condition called “phimosis,” which means a foreskin too tight to withdraw back to uncover the head. To be able to touch the head directly provides a lot of sensation.

The subject of circumcision is now surrounded by a lot of emotion and strong opinions. Personally, I refuse to consider myself mutilated, as my penis provides me with indescribable amounts of great pleasure. Also, I know men who go to great lengths to “restore” their foreskin by stretching the remaining skin on the upper shaft around the head, so that it can cover the head. This may look the way you want, and even feel very good. Still, it is not exactly the same as a natural foreskin. Of course, I also admire the natural foreskins of many online masturbation buddies.

I coach men all over the world in masturbatory skills via video conference. To me every penis is a miraculous organ, to be celebrated and honored exactly as it is. Sure, it might be wonderful if I had not been circumcised, but I do love my penis as it is. Also, I know men who were circumcised as adults and do not regret it. To say this may not be “politically correct” these days, but I think a penis is remarkable and beautiful both ways, cut or uncut.

Nature evolved the penis to have a foreskin. I’ve compensated for my lack of foreskin by using plenty of lubrication and by endlessly exploring the potentials of masturbating as a fine art, what I call Mindful Masturbation. This trains your penis to give you ever-increasing pleasure.

I encourage all men to love yourself as you are, and also appreciate differences.

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The Bate Master - Bruce P. GretherBRUCE P. GRETHER is the “BateMaster”. Mr. Grether’s lifelong love of penises and masturbation has led him to achieve a level of mastery and understanding of masturbation that is at once unique and extremely rare. He is renowned for both his ability to achieve seemingly endless states of prolonged and intense masturbatory pleasure as well as his skill in passing this knowledge on to his students. Mr. Grether has made it his life’s mission to encourage men to take their practice of masturbation to new levels of personal enrichment and self-discovery.

Mr. Grether is a globally recognized masturbation activist, an accomplished masturbation coach, and a tireless facilitator of masturbation workshops. In 2001 he coined the now popular term “Mindful Masturbation”. He is the author of a best-selling book, The Secret of the Golden Phallus, plus the erotic fantasy novels The Moontusk Chronicles. His website can be found at www.eroticengineering.com.

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A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.

Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.


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How Bruce P. Grether became the Batemaster

Among his earliest memories, Bruce recalls seeing an adult man’s penis swing about anchored in a nest of curly brown hairs when the man was changing clothes. That penis fascinated him and he somehow knew it was of major importance. He also remembers how good it felt to slide down a stairway banister or to climb a tree with pressure between his legs sending delicious sensations all through his body.

At an early age, he played doctor with another boy his age, and the frottage he enjoyed as they rubbed their penises together made him feel One with All Things.

He was older, maybe 9 or 10 years when he figured out how to actually masturbate while taking a shower. Immediately Bruce became a fan of self-pleasure, though, with puberty, he became extremely shy about his body being seen. Still, when his pubic hair sprouted and his penis grew bigger, it astonished him how incredible the sensations could feel with adult genitalia.

All through his 20s and 30s Bruce loved masturbating and did it often. Something kept tell him though, that there could be more to it. None of the books he read about Tantra and Taoist erotic cultivation provided simple how-to instructions. Finally, in his early 40s, he came upon Joseph Kramer’s video about male genital massage: FIRE ON THE MOUNTAIN.

Having no playmates to try this with, he tried it on himself. In the process, he discovered what he soon named “Mindful Masturbation.” For 6 weeks he masturbated for hours every day, and did not ejaculate once! This was the Penis Paradise he had been looking for since his adventures playing doctor as a young boy. He was changed forever and lost most of his shyness and insecurities.

Bruce began to listen deeply to whatever his penis told him. This way he learned more and more about male masturbation, the penis, and he studied human sexuality. Soon he was hired to write professionally for the sex education site JackinWorld (dot) com, which he did for some years under the name “Bruce McFarland.”

Since then, his erotic activism is more radical and he uses his actual given name: Bruce P. Grether, AKA the Batemaster. He has hosted workshops and now does online masturbation coaching. In 2012 his best-selling book THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS was published and with his handsome young friend Blue Tyger he created the Erotic Engineering site to explore advanced male self-pleasure practices.

Bruce considers himself a Missionary of the Male Mysteries and his work continues.

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  1. I was circumcised as a child so don’t know what it’s like masterbating with a forskin. This however has never seemed to be a problem when pleasuring myself or a partner. My climaxes are intense and I have never had a problem getting and maintaining a good solid erection. I am a regular serious masterbator who just uses plenty of lube.

  2. Thanks for explaining that after phimosis foreskin stretching, pleasure could still be achieved through certain kinds of stimulation. My husband has been getting interested about that because he has an uncut penis. I wonder if dealing with that will help with our sex life in the long run.

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